I’m relearning that to speak candidly, openly, from a loving, calm place – my truth and feelings – is the greatest, forward positive way to live for myself and for all.
I’m not keeping the peace by not speaking/sharing my truth. If there is unrest, it is there til I process it.
The ‘pot is already stirred’. The ‘elephant is in the room’ whether we speak about it or not We stay stuck and/or living in discomfort unless we address the ‘dirt under the rug’.
Many of us are living in situations that to address them with the people that are directly involved, while it makes us vulnerable, discomfort has no chance of diffusing until we acknowledge and bring forth the awareness and truth of what is for ourselves.
The uniqueness of our situations, relationships and experiences are real to us. Trust who you are, what you feel and let kindness bring you through.
I have been exploring speaking candidly with kindness wholeheartedly. It is trippy. It is freeing. It is scary. It is beautiful. It can be really fun and exciting. It is definitely love.
Oh the ‘web we weave’ and it always can be reweaved.
We are living as we are living. We are living in and through situations. To ignore them does not make them not so.
To not bring them into the light with a goal of growing and healing, to do better – to alter a ‘thing’, may keep us stuck in it.
We are being asked, sometimes forced, to ‘unstick’ ourselves. It can be exhausting. I am sure it is grandness and opens our full ability to thrive.
May you want your best for You. May you free yourself to Just Speak You from your most open heart and mind as possible. When the desire to live as you truly feel is present [and from deep within us it most always is], let You be so. Let love.
I wish this for You; as much and as often as possible.